If you and your husband try to engage in couples counseling and it becomes evident that you genuinely feel no love for one another and want to divorce, then fine. You will see from reading my book that there are ways to attenuate the impact of divorce on your children, and to prioritize their security and stability. But before you do something irrevocable, try to open up to your husband, tell him that you are sincerely considering divorce if things don’t change, and entreat him to see a counselo